Start Dating Up®
Meeting Your Expectations
Seeking is all about creating a space for attractive and successful singles to find real connections. Whether you’re looking for upscale dating, fun-filled adventures, or deep affection, we know Seekers are looking for the same type of relationship as you. And we love putting like-minded people in touch with each other!
Seeking members appreciate the diverse range of people that are out there and how you’re able to elevate each other’s dating experience.
Be Your
Authentic Self
Communicate
What You Want
Keep an
Open Mind
Lose Yourself
in the Moment
Seeking Connection
With over 52 million members across 130 countries, Dating Up helps individuals find and choose the relationships that uniquely align with their personal passions and dreams.
Seeking members are sophisticated people who wish to meet and date attractive and successful people in a way that goes beyond typical social dating traditions and trends.
The Seeking platform is focused on helping members choose the relationships that uniquely align with their personal passions and dreams. Seeking provides a safe environment to explore, discover, and evolve what it means to date.
No one person has the same needs or interests, but the one thing shared on Seeking is the aspiration to discover something better, allowing members those unique opportunities to develop connections and share more memorable experiences together.
Dating Up
Lifestyle & Experiences
When you join Seeking, finding meaningful relationships faster by defining what you want from a partnership becomes simple. Your time is valuable and your expectations are important. Seeking is focused on making your dating life more exciting and effortless.
You only get one life, so why wouldn’t you want to live it to the fullest? Life’s experiences are better when you enjoy them with a partner who shares your interests. Your desire to discover something better together will always bring joy.
For some, this means a luxurious vacation in the Caribbean or an indulgent evening that begins with a five-star meal. For others, it’s simply a quiet night at home sharing a good bottle of wine or a romantic walk through a local park. No matter what your ideal lifestyle looks like, Seeking lets you make memorable experiences with someone who appreciates the same things in life.
Seeking is designed to spark new and exciting experiences to help you find and choose the perfect partner, one whose lifestyle and dreams align with your own.
Here are some ideas to see if you’re on the same page:
Ask intentional questions and really listen to their answers
Open up about who you are and what inspires you
Make plans that reflect your interests and see if they get excited
Try some activities that your partner is into
